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There would seem no better hypothesis to
explain love and the force of evolution than the postulation of:
A God who loves us, who wants us to grow.
There would seem no better hypothesis to
explain how it is that the unconscious possesses all knowledge that
we have not yet consciously learned than the postulation of:
A God who is intimately associated with each of
us - so intimately that he is part of us.
If we want to know the closest place to look
for grace, it is within us. If we desire wisdom greater than our
own, we can find it within us.
This suggests that the interface between God
and man is in part the interface between our unconscious and our
conscious. Our unconscious is God. God is within us. We are part of
God all the time. God has been with us all along, is now and always
will be.
The ultimate goal of spiritual growth is for us
to become as one with God.
Since our unconscious is God, it is for the
conscious self to become God-like. It is to know with God. God wants
us to become God-like. We have been growing towards God who is the
ultimate goal of evolution. This is the meaning of our individual
existence. We are born that we might become, as a conscious
individual, a new life form of God.
It is God who is the source of the evolutionary
force and God who is the destination. This is what we mean when we
say God is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end.
Once we know God and become part of him, then
we can through our conscious decisions influence the world according
to his will. Our lives will themselves become agents for God's
grace. We will become one form of God's grace, working on his behalf
among people, creating love where it did not exist before,
encouraging others in raising their level of awareness, pushing the
plane of human evolution forward.
Communion
There is a joy that comes with this knowledge.
Indeed, there is no greater satisfaction than that of being
competent, of really knowing what we are doing. Those who have grown
the most spiritually are the most competent in living. There is even
greater joy in communion with God. For when we know what we are
doing, we are participating in the omniscience of God. With total
awareness of the nature of a situation, of our motives for acting on
it, of the results and ramifications of our action, we have attained
that level of awareness that we normally only expect of God. Our
conscious self has succeeded in coming into alignment with the mind
of God. We know with God.
Yet those who have attained this stage of
spiritual growth, this state of awareness, are invariably possessed
by a joyful humility. For they are aware that their unusual wisdom
has its origin in their unconscious and their connectedness to God.
The truly powerful experience a diminution in their sense of self:
"Let your will, not mine be done. Make me your
instrument."
Such a loss of self always brings with it a
kind of calm ecstasy, not unlike the experience of being in love.
Aware of their connectedness to God, they experience a surcease of
loneliness. There is communion.
Spiritual power
Spiritual power is not simply awareness; it is
the capacity to maintain our ability to still make decisions with
greater and greater awareness. It is consciousness. God-like power
is the power to make decisions with total awareness. Contrary to
popular perception, omniscience does not make decision-making
easier. The closer one comes to God, the more one feels sympathy for
God. To participate in God's omniscience is also to share his agony.
Spiritual power can be distinguished from
political power because it resides entirely within the individual,
as opposed to a given position or money, and has nothing to do with
the capacity to coerce others. Political power is unrelated to
goodness or wisdom. Very stupid and evil people have walked as kings
on earth. People of great spiritual power may be wealthy and may on
occasion occupy political positions of leadership, but they are as
likely to be poor and lacking in political authority.
There is another facet of power: aloneness,
i.e. the unavailability of someone to communicate with at your level
of awareness. When we have evolved to the highest level of
awareness, of spiritual power, we will likely have no one in our
circle of acquaintances with whom to share such depth of
understanding. One of the most poignant themes of the gospels is
Christ's continual sense of frustration on finding that there was no
one who could really understand him. No matter how hard he tried,
how much he extended himself, he could not lift the minds of even
his own disciples to his level. The wisest followed him but could
not catch up with him. All his love could not relieve him of the
necessity to lead by walking ahead, utterly alone. This kind of
aloneness is common to all who travel the furthest on the journey of
spiritual growth. It is such a burden that it could not be carried,
except that as we outdistance our fellow humans our relationship to
God inevitably becomes closer. In the communion of growing
consciousness, of knowing with God, there is enough joy to sustain
us.
Personal Discipline &
Problem Solving
01 Problems & Pain
02 Delaying Gratification
03 Acceptance of Responsibility
04 Dedication to the Truth
05 Balancing
Love & Relationships
06 What is Love?
07 What Love is Not
08 The Work of Love
09 The Risks of Love
10 Love and Psychotherapy
Personal & Spiritual Growth
11 Personal & Spiritual
Growth
12 The Phenomena of Grace (1)
13 The Phenomena of Grace (2)
14 God - The Alpha & The Omega
15 Resistance to Grace
16 Welcoming Grace
Appendix